And if a woman has a husband who is not a believer, and he
is willing to live with her, she must not divorce him. For the unbelieving man has been sanctified
by her. I Corinthians 7:13-14 NIV
This passage does not mean that the husband has become a
child of God, which only happens through faith in the sacrifice of our Lord
Jesus. However, it suggests that there
are blessings for the husband in being married to a Christian. He will be encouraged to read the Bible, to
go to church, to pray. Maybe, eventually, his heart will be open to the love of
God. Perhaps feeling the love of his wife will make him realize that her care for
him not only comes from natural affection, but also from the supernatural gifts
of love that God gives us.
We are also reminded that a Christian is not tainted by
being with an unbeliever, rather the unbeliever is influenced by the believer. Our eternal life with Jesus is sealed and we
are protected from the effects of the world on our souls. As Christians we can
pray for walls of protection around any family or friends who are not
believers. They may never know what
misery they have been saved from because of the prayers of their family and
friends. Sometimes unbelievers don’t
want to hear the Good News but Christians can still be praying and showing godly
character. The sweet fragrance of their
lives can only be a blessing. It may be
uncomfortable for the unbeliever if conviction of sin starts to happen, but
that is the first step to salvation.